Using text messages to get your ex back can be one of the most effective “recovery” tactics that one can employ. In fact, if done correctly, a text message can bring up reminiscent feelings that can set you on the right path to getting your ex back.
However, there seems to be a huge misunderstanding out there on how to actually use text messaging effectively.
First: A Quick Warning
I am not going to lie to you, sending a text message is a huge risk, if done incorrectly you will decimate any chance you have of that happy reunion you keep daydreaming about.
In order for this to work the landscape has to be set up in a certain way. Allow me to explain.
1. You break up (you’ve already done this part.)
2. You go CRAZY with emotions like regret, anger, sadness, shame.
3. You begin to send text message… and nothing. You text again… and ignored, again and so on and so forth.
Take a moment to think… You has turned into a text terrorist!
Texting your ex the “wrong way” (being a “Text Terrorist”, as I call it) is basically like throwing your relationship under a bus.
I know you want to do anything you can to get her back into your arms right now.
And I know that the thought of her talking to, kissing, or being with another person is probably driving you crazy.
But if you go act on pure emotion, without a clear head and a clear plan, you’re going to ruin any chance of getting her back.
The true is…
You need to take at least some days off to let things cool down, to give the initial sting of the breakup time to soften, to give her time to miss you, to take control of the relationship and (most importantly) to let that raw, horrible yearning you’re feeling right now abate.
During your days of no contact you …
A. Figure out the real reason you broke up (it’s probably not why you think.)
B. Figure out your “Big Goal” and what you really want with your ex: Lifelong love? A one-night shag? To be friends? It’s up to you.
C. You prep your “Text Judo” methods so you’re ready when the time comes.
The right way
Then… once your days of no contact are up…
You start using the homework you did during your “downtime” to start texting your ex, but in this way:
A. You start with “Across the Bow” texts, which are designed to get her attention without being needy or emotionally loaded.
B. You move on to “Best of the Relationship Texts” that transport your ex back to the good times.
C. You then use the “Emotional Honesty” and “Intimacy Booster” texting formula to bring you closer together than ever before.
D. Next come the “Green-Eyed Monster” texts that drive your ex crazy with “positive jealousy”
E. And “Seduction” texts that tug on her primal instincts.
All to get your ex to be the one to ask you out again – on your terms – so you can create a new relationship better than the one you had before.
You Next Step
If you want know more o on these techniques, see my in-depth video explaining how Text Your Ex Back can help you. Only click the link below.
Text Your Ex Back Video
As I’ve said, with the right plan and a little time, you can get out from under this bitter cloud of pain and desperation.
You can be happy again. You deserve to be happy again.